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Cultural Etiquette

Guidelines and polite language forms to ensure smooth communication while respecting local customs in Fukuoka.

Sections

1. Language Basics: Common Phrases and Their Usage

While many people in Fukuoka may not speak fluent English, they are generally patient and appreciative of any effort to communicate in Japanese. Learning a few basic phrases can go a long way in building rapport and showing respect.

Essential Phrases:

  • Hello / Good day: ใ“ใ‚“ใซใกใฏ (Konnichiwa) โ€“ Used during the day.
  • Good morning: ใŠใฏใ‚ˆใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ (Ohayou gozaimasu) โ€“ Polite; use just ใŠใฏใ‚ˆใ† (Ohayou) with close friends or peers.
  • Good evening: ใ“ใ‚“ใฐใ‚“ใฏ (Konbanwa).
  • Thank you: ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ†ใ”ใ–ใ„ใพใ™ (Arigatou gozaimasu) โ€“ Polite; use ใ‚ใ‚ŠใŒใจใ† (Arigatou) for casual situations.
  • Excuse me / Sorry: ใ™ใฟใพใ›ใ‚“ (Sumimasen) โ€“ Can be used to apologize or get someoneโ€™s attention.
  • Please: ใŠ้ก˜ใ„ใ—ใพใ™ (Onegaishimasu) โ€“ Often used when making a request.
  • Yes: ใฏใ„ (Hai).
  • No: ใ„ใ„ใˆ (Iie).
  • Do you speak English?: ่‹ฑ่ชžใ‚’่ฉฑใ›ใพใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ(Eigo o hanasemasu ka?).
  • I donโ€™t understand: ใ‚ใ‹ใ‚Šใพใ›ใ‚“ (Wakarimasen).
  • Where is [place]?: [Place] ใฏใฉใ“ใงใ™ใ‹๏ผŸ([Place] wa doko desu ka?).

Tips for Using These Phrases:

  • Always use polite forms (e.g., adding "gozaimasu") when speaking to strangers, elders, or in formal settings.
  • Bow slightly when saying thank you or apologizing to show respect.

2. Honorifics and Politeness in Language

Japanese is a hierarchical language, and the use of honorifics is essential to show respect. This is especially important in Fukuoka, where traditional values are still strong.

Key Honorifics:

  • -san: A general honorific used for adults (e.g., Tanaka-san). Use this unless you are very close to someone.
  • -sama: A more formal and respectful version of "-san," often used in customer service or for esteemed individuals.
  • -kun: Used for boys or young men, typically by someone older or in a position of authority.
  • -chan: A casual and affectionate suffix, often used for children, close friends, or pets.
  • Sensei: Used for teachers, doctors, or other professionals.

When to Use Honorifics:

  • Always use honorifics when addressing someone youโ€™ve just met, someone older, or someone in a position of authority.
  • Avoid using first names unless invited to do so, as this can be seen as overly familiar.

3. Gestures and Non-Verbal Communication

In Japan, non-verbal communication is just as important as spoken language. Fukuoka residents, like most Japanese people, value subtlety and indirectness in communication.

Key Gestures and Their Meanings:

  • Bowing: A bow is a standard greeting and a sign of respect. The depth and duration of the bow depend on the situation (e.g., a slight nod for casual greetings, a deeper bow for formal occasions).
  • Pointing: Avoid pointing with your finger; instead, gesture with your whole hand.
  • Eye Contact: Prolonged eye contact can be seen as confrontational. Itโ€™s polite to occasionally look away during conversations.
  • Nodding: Nodding is a common way to show you are listening and understanding.

Gestures to Avoid:

  • Avoid excessive hand gestures or touching, as Japanese people generally value personal space.
  • Do not beckon someone with your palm facing up; instead, wave with your palm facing down.

4. Indirect Communication and Context

Japanese communication tends to be indirect, and people often avoid saying "no" outright to maintain harmony. This is true in Fukuoka as well, where people are known for their friendliness and politeness.

Tips for Understanding Indirect Communication:

  • "Maybe" or "Itโ€™s difficult": These phrases often mean "no" in a polite way. Pay attention to tone and context.
  • Silence: Silence is not awkward in Japan; itโ€™s often a sign of thoughtfulness or respect.
  • Reading the Air (็ฉบๆฐ—ใ‚’่ชญใ‚€, Kuuki o Yomu): This phrase refers to understanding unspoken social cues. Observe body language and context to gauge the mood of a conversation.

5. Dialect in Fukuoka: Hakata-ben

Fukuoka has its own regional dialect called Hakata-ben, which is known for its unique intonations and vocabulary. While standard Japanese (ๆจ™ๆบ–่ชž, Hyoujungo) is widely understood, learning a few Hakata-ben phrases can endear you to locals.

Common Hakata-ben Phrases:

  • ~to?: A casual way of asking a question (e.g., "What are you doing?" becomes "Nani shiyotto?").
  • Bari: Means "very" or "super" (e.g., "Bari oishii" = "Super delicious").
  • Yoka: Means "good" or "okay" (e.g., "Yoka yo" = "Itโ€™s fine").
  • ~ken: Means "because" (e.g., "Iโ€™m going because Iโ€™m free" = "Hima daken iku").

Tips for Using Hakata-ben:

  • Use it sparingly unless youโ€™re fluent, as overusing it might come across as trying too hard.
  • Locals will appreciate your effort to learn their dialect, even if you only use a few words.

6. Practical Communication Tips for Visitors and Residents

  • Be Patient: If someone doesnโ€™t understand you, try rephrasing or using simple words. Avoid raising your voice, as this can be seen as rude.
  • Carry a Translation App: Apps like Google Translate can be helpful, especially for reading signs or menus.
  • Learn Katakana: Many foreign words are written in katakana, so learning this script can help you recognize loanwords.
  • Politeness Over Fluency: Even if your Japanese isnโ€™t perfect, being polite and respectful will leave a positive impression.

7. Cultural Insights for Long-Term Residents

If youโ€™re planning to live in Fukuoka, consider taking formal Japanese language classes to improve your fluency and understanding of cultural nuances. Joining local community events or language exchange groups can also help you practice conversational Japanese and build connections with locals.


By following these guidelines, youโ€™ll not only navigate Fukuokaโ€™s cultural and linguistic landscape with ease but also foster meaningful interactions with its residents. The people of Fukuoka are known for their warmth and hospitality, so your efforts to respect their language and customs will be met with appreciation.