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Cultural Etiquette

Insights into Japanese customs, manners, and social norms for smoother integration into Nagoya's culture.

Sections

1. Greetings

  • Bowing: Bowing is the standard form of greeting in Japan, including Nagoya. The depth and duration of the bow depend on the level of respect you wish to convey. A slight bow is sufficient for casual encounters, while a deeper bow is appropriate for formal situations.
  • Handshakes: Handshakes are less common but may be used when interacting with foreigners or in business settings. If a handshake is offered, it is usually gentle and accompanied by a slight bow.
  • Exchanging Business Cards (Meishi): In professional settings, exchanging business cards is a formal ritual. Use both hands to present and receive cards, and take a moment to study the card before putting it away in a cardholder (never in your pocket).

2. Dining Manners

  • Chopstick Etiquette:
    • Do not stick chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice, as this resembles a funeral ritual.
    • Avoid passing food directly from one pair of chopsticks to another, as this is also associated with funerary customs.
    • Use the opposite end of your chopsticks (the clean end) to take food from shared dishes.
  • Slurping: It is acceptable and even encouraged to slurp noodles, as it shows appreciation for the meal.
  • Saying Thanks: Before eating, say "Itadakimasu" (I humbly receive), and after finishing, say "Gochisousama deshita" (Thank you for the meal).
  • Paying the Bill: In casual dining settings, it is common for each person to pay for their own meal (known as "betsu-betsu"). Tipping is not customary in Japan, as excellent service is considered standard.

3. Gift-Giving Traditions

  • Omiyage (Souvenirs): When visiting someoneโ€™s home or returning from a trip, it is customary to bring a small gift, such as local sweets or snacks. In Nagoya, popular omiyage include uiro (a traditional sweet rice cake) or tenmusu (a rice ball with tempura).
  • Presentation: Gifts should be wrapped neatly, as presentation is highly valued. Many stores in Nagoya offer complimentary gift-wrapping services.
  • Receiving Gifts: When receiving a gift, accept it with both hands and express gratitude. It is polite to open the gift later, not in front of the giver, unless they insist.
  • Seasonal Gifts: During the summer (chลซgen) and winter (seibo), it is customary to give gifts to express gratitude to those who have helped you, such as employers or landlords.

4. Dress Code

  • General Attire: Dress modestly and neatly, as appearance is important in Japanese culture. Avoid overly casual clothing like tank tops or flip-flops unless you are at the beach or in a very informal setting.
  • Business Attire: In professional settings, wear conservative suits in dark colors. Men typically wear ties, and women opt for formal dresses or suits.
  • Visiting Temples or Shrines: Wear respectful clothing that covers your shoulders and knees. Avoid flashy or revealing outfits.
  • Seasonal Considerations: Nagoya experiences hot summers and cold winters, so dress appropriately for the weather. Layers are recommended during transitional seasons.

5. Communication Style

  • Indirect Communication: Japanese people, including those in Nagoya, often communicate indirectly to avoid confrontation or causing embarrassment. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and context.
  • Politeness: Use honorifics and polite language. For example, add "san" after someoneโ€™s name (e.g., Tanaka-san) unless instructed otherwise.
  • Silence: Silence is not uncomfortable in Japanese culture and is often used to show thoughtfulness or respect.
  • Apologies: Apologizing is common and seen as a way to maintain harmony. Phrases like "sumimasen" (excuse me/sorry) or "gomen nasai" (Iโ€™m sorry) are frequently used.

6. Visiting Local Sites

  • Temples and Shrines:
    • Purify yourself at the entrance by rinsing your hands and mouth at the water basin (chozuya). Use the provided ladle and follow the proper procedure.
    • When praying, toss a coin into the offering box, bow twice, clap twice, and bow once more.
    • Avoid taking photos in restricted areas or during ceremonies.
  • Nagoya Castle: Dress comfortably but respectfully. Be mindful of signs indicating areas where photography is prohibited.
  • Public Behavior: Speak quietly and avoid loud or disruptive behavior, especially on public transportation or in sacred spaces.
  • Costs: Many temples and shrines in Nagoya are free to enter, but some may charge a small fee (typically ยฅ300โ€“ยฅ500) for access to special areas or exhibitions.

7. Public Transportation Etiquette

  • Queuing: Always line up in an orderly fashion when waiting for trains or buses. Follow the arrows and markings on the platform.
  • Priority Seating: Leave priority seats available for the elderly, pregnant women, or those with disabilities.
  • Silence: Keep your phone on silent mode and avoid talking on the phone while on public transportation.
  • Payment: Use an IC card like manaca (Nagoyaโ€™s prepaid transportation card) for convenience. These cards can be purchased and recharged at train stations.

8. Other Practical Tips

  • Shoes: Remove your shoes when entering someoneโ€™s home, traditional accommodations (ryokan), or certain restaurants. Slippers are often provided.
  • Trash Disposal: Japan has strict waste separation rules. Carry a small bag for your trash, as public bins are rare.
  • Punctuality: Being on time is highly valued. Arrive a few minutes early for appointments or social gatherings.
  • Language: While many people in Nagoya may not speak fluent English, they are generally helpful. Learning a few basic Japanese phrases can go a long way.

Summary of Costs and Procedures

  • Dining: Meals range from ยฅ500 for casual options to ยฅ3,000+ for fine dining.
  • Gift-Wrapping: Often free at department stores or costs around ยฅ100โ€“ยฅ300 at smaller shops.
  • Transportation: A manaca card costs ยฅ2,000 (ยฅ500 deposit + ยฅ1,500 credit).
  • Temple Fees: ยฅ300โ€“ยฅ500 for special areas or exhibitions.

By following these guidelines, youโ€™ll not only show respect for Nagoyaโ€™s culture but also enjoy a smoother and more enriching experience in the city.